The cheapest source of 68040s I found was
The L2 Company a
supplier of Mac parts.
Oscillator
You need to look at the oscillator page to
determine which speed oscillator you'll need to buy.
Good places to look are (I've dealt with both companies in the past but have no association with either):
You'll need to get 27C220, which is a 40 pin DIP chip that's a 2 Mbit EEPROM. Herb says that a 27C1002 might be compatable.
Then, you'll need to put the image file onto the EEPROM using an EEPROM burner. I can't give any good details here, since I had to get a friend to perform this step (besides, it depends heavily on what PROM burner you're using).